S2 Ep 2 : The tale of tails of communication

               " The first problem of communication is getting people's attention"

                                                            - Chip Heath

 

Ever since Humans have came into this world as apes, they have evolved and adapted as great beings with intelligent minds. They had created so many things such as technologies and sophisticated system that has stupefied  me for so many years. Now we had tell someone our ideas, describe it to everyone so that the system can popularised and renovated in different ways all over the world. We have done it through the term communication. Our many ways communication have been categorised into two simple procedures - Writing and Speaking. But even after the many substantial things mankind has created, they couldn't perfect the way of communication. Even today many of us, even me, has thought thousands of times on what to speak with the person sitting in front. When we are told to speak on a particular topic a month or a week ago, we usually prepare ourselves for the topic, giving our best to make the speech the best thing your listeners have ever listened. Same thing goes with writing, we usually prepare on what to write, since we have researched on lots of facts and news to present a perfect report. But most of the times even the most prepared person thinks millions of time before actually starting a conversation. The kind of conversation I'm talking about isn't the one we give in interviews or the one where we are telling something to our teachers (in a serious manner). The one I'm talking about is the one where we should talk without any fear, with our friends and families or just some stranger you bumped into in train or cafe. Honestly, I think 80% of the bonds we actually will make in the future will start with a simple conversation. My case also started with such a fact, even if I sit with my friends I am occasionally the quietist boy of the group, although honestly most of my friends actually never understood me, as I briefly explained it in my post 'CHANGES' and the Friday Fun Talks (go check it out!), and they usually zone me out because of it. I don't mean to say that all conversations will always lead to something good, but in order to start your conversation, I go with the simple mantra : START WITH 'HI, MY NAME IS _______, WHAT ARE YOUR INTERESTS?'. I think that most of the general characteristics are reflected out with this question. And honestly, ever since I have started my conversation, I actually understand how the person I just talked to might be. People who don't share your interests but think you're cool, just take them as 'just friends', but people who really connect to your point of views, are the actual friends who are gonna stay forever with you, because you know the saying : 'BIRDS OF A FEATHER,FLOCK TOGETHER'...….

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